Good intentions...but we are one of a kind

ah gal work 11am-10pm tonite..before she set up, i just reminded her to be alert at all times... especailly when coming home..

this reminded me that one of my good buddy suggested to get ah boy to wait for her downstairs while she returning from home... Well, i understand her good intentions...but we are one of a kind....

we are not those normal family, who has a husband or a father concern enough to go down stairs to pick up the wife or daughter on those late nites return.. . we just dont have this kind of privilege, and we must learn to live up with our conditions....we are on our own, very much alone.......

Though is a good suggestion to get ah boy to pick up her, but how many times, how many nites he can do it... so we decided to have a small family discussion over this.... and we all agreed one need to be alert and careful when we are back alone... and we must learn to take care ourselves at all times, and in all situations....

We must also believe there is a pair of invisiable eyes that watching over us.. but we have to do our part to protect ourselves first..
for gals, not to wear too prevailing... and boys not to be flashy with his toys. >> handphone, ipod etc...

well, i apply these when i travel alone durinng my assignment.. anyone to protect me , to pick up now and then.. NO ONE!! NONE !! I AM ALL ALONE !!! just have to trust God to protect.... so are my kids... they are not normal kids..... they are one of a kind that grow up much more stronger and versatile compare to those in normal happy family kinda.....