christmas..... families get together...

As usual, we have all the families gather together and exchange gifts.... tho some say.. christmas is not about santa claus, christmas meal and presents...but the kids are grow up with this since day one.. they all look forward to christmas as they will receive a little gift from uncles and aunties... and the special christmas meal, honey baked ham.. log cakes that you get to see only in christmas...

Now, they are all in their teens.....and hope they will continue to organzie families parties if we got old and not able to ..... Its is because of all these gatherings, our bonds are strengthen between siblings and cousins......

Cell group Christmas party ^.^

This evening, we have our cell group Christmas party at our pastor's home...really a very enjoyable night with carols, catching up and thank you sis suzanne brought the

WII, it was so fun.....

And also , Pastor took out a toy that some of us may not even know whats the name and how to play with it...... Its was a play thing, where we put one foot in the ring and swing the loose end that tie with a ball.. a complete round without trip will then consider good ... yeah.. a good exercise thing , i think ^.^

more fotos at this link http://reiexpresso2.multiply.com/photos/album/23

val & tim

a nice foto take at grand park hotel... i must say the banquet is very very sumptous...the best dish was the steam red guropa..

And something i found out from this dinner was .. my timmy is actually a very sociable boy... he chatted, make fun with the other guests at the same table... And even shouted yumsheng when the related families toasting on the stage.... and val is so pretty with her extended long hair ... so feminine......

looking a these 2 kids... i just cant thank God enough in helping me to bring them up......

our kind neighbours

this couple is my neighbours.... i am so so so blessed to have them.. those early years of being my new role > a single parent have been very tough as the kids are young...they have extended help to me..... watching over them when i did my travellings, cook meals for them, like our chinese saying....看头看尾.... they are very humble people... do not know God, but they knew the God i believe will watch over us.... And, they have the kind of serving spirit where sometimes, may not find it in our own 'christians' community.....

Today, is the big day of their 2nd daughter.... so we are all invited to the wedding banquet...and take this opportunity to have some shots with them....

new eye lashes

After ah gal done her eye lashes at this beauty shop > Beauty Couture at our jurong east..

i have also perm mine today... so now i have very nice long curly lashes at a very good price.. and best of all , they are all my real eyelashes!! i get my galfrds there too if they want... cant wait to show them and blink blink to them .. kekeke

some shots taken while ah gal was with me :D

weighty issue

Visited this Dr Georgia Lee 's clinic in the morning... this clinic do alot of things to make you look nice or confident... but no plastic surgery involved.. it has a name for it...but i forgot...

However, the injection into the thigh to loosen fats was told to be painful...... hmmm thats really put me off... but i think the botok to remove my frown lines and make my lips fuller, firmer and kissable will be nice ..hehe

well.. weight has been a issue to me... it really affected my previous relationship and was told times again to cut down... but i am a love to eat person... i love good food .. so probably thats contributed the reason haha.. On the other hand, if the guy mind your fat body ... then something is really wrong, isnt it!! But sometimes,, i do really wish i am smaller to fit into those nice cheongsams.... i really love it.. so oriental..... so..i will try ,, ehhhhhh try lah ..^.^

celebrating Madeline's birthdae

today is madeline's birthdae...this time last year, we celebrated it in taiwan, tai ru ge...

however, this year, we did not manage to get out.. the year end airtickets are just far too expensive....

we have dinner together and sis cherie suggested to go malacca... and and we are on it next week.. just a couple of days ,, eat and shop again ^^... really really enjoy every much with them and thank God for them.... they have enriched my life....

finally... my dec holidays start....

what a long oct and nov to me....... and the toughest bit was to convince my consumer colleagues to embrace the new system... yes, indeed, they are a few flaws with the new one... but we really must learn how to let go .... the green system is my baby... i have my six years babysitting it... i close my eyes know where to fix any queries... who can feel more pain than me seeing a good system need to turn off... But thats the new owner's call, we have to realise it..... Afterall, i am just a employee, i need to to work and need to feed my four mouths.... and have to learn to love the new system...

Nevertheless, i am off for the rest of the month until christmas eve..... and i have done what i need to do and said what i needed to say.... This is end times, alot of funny things and happening in the workplace i guess....

New sofa came this morning and its really blend in with our fixtures..., majong session in the afternoon.... so i have started my holidays ^.^ ... airtickets far too expensive to get away now ..... must as well keep it for next year... yeahhhh...Hapi Holidays !! eat and shop, shop and eat !!! and grow fat whahahah

Christmas time.......

the gals helping me to put up the tree again... actually, these recent years, the teens helped me to do this .. i have literally pass this to them haha.... we hv star shape lights on the tree this year... a little pricy from ikea... but i think thats something different .. hope the lights are durable ^.^

holiday outing....

Another outing with the whole Chan gang... this time, we go for dim sum buffet , Dragon Restaurant at depot road.... hmm not really really great..but still acceptable with the food and value... i like best is the hongkong noddle.. the noodle is moist enough and full of fragrance....

again,, will not forget to take some shots with them .....

our dream carrrrrrr.....

ehhhhh .. going to take the basic theory test for driving...

decades back, i took,, but failed, i think 3 or 4 times... psps...

this time, i am taking it with ah gal.... but i am confident that i will pass this time... hahaha... this is just the beginning ^.^

2nd birthdae gal in NOV

makan time again.... to celebrate Ps Daphne's birthdae... we have dinner at this small chinese restaurant..and its coffee pork ribs is very nice...i really love it ^.^

Even we have past the closing hours, the shop owner was so nice that he did not chase us out of his shop :D .... they are so many things to catch up once we get together....... our lives, joy, happiness, struggles... and I thank God for them... :D

our Guiding Angels..... Uncle Johnny and Auntie Melissa

A big fight with timmy again... he tuang his Add maths class and teacher called up..... i was so so so so so MAD !!!! A long confrontation done on the phone and both of us not settled...

When i reached home, aunti Mel was there (i didnt even know she was coming to my place)... . and we talked again.. Some heated arugments came along and many past was brought up .. haiz.... and then Uncle Johnny came... As he talked us down...and finally settled....

When i think about it now, its seems God know a big fight is coming, and He send Mel and Johnny to my place .. as mediators.. Uncle Johnny really have the gift of the gap,, infact the Chias got this talent... Timmy is so eloquent too.. he should be a lawyer.. die also can say alive...

And guess what, it seems after this fight,, i realised what timmy needs from me.... and i also know the fault lies in me and honestly, i will really want to get rid of that mind set too... looks like the comp days are over for both of us ... got to start planning what to do together now .... ^.^

Thank God for the guiding angels and also He has turned bad into GOOD .. :D

celebrating val's bdae at home....

again,, we take very opportunity to get together and be merry.... we have steamboat for val's birthday.. she loves to keep her special day with us..and i am so glad she did....

the finale of the birthday bash was uncle johnny played the birthdae song with tim's electric guitar.. we sang three birthdae songs for her..and the most funniest one was the one in cantonese. we all LOL......

and of course.. we never forget the drink drink... bottoms up .. one bottle of red wine is gone... ^.^

ah gal turns 18 today....

today ah gal's 18th bdae.. she is very happy.. cos this is the legal age allow her go learn driving..and most of all go clubbing...

apart being feel her happiness, i also raised a warning about clubbing.. tats to be very careful when visiting those places.. once a person drinks so much, she will lose her sense.. and become weak, and finally do things that is not suppose to...
tats remind me when her biological father visited those 'KTVs', i have also warned him about those places.. he told he that wont happen to him and he is a person of strong will and will not be tempted.. what happen next.. he was hooked with viet ktv hostess cum prositute and finally left us...

so God say you need to run away from temptation, thats is very true.. dont try to test it.. you will fail...

busi oct...but still find time to celebrate.. :)

well..it was a really really busy month for me in october... testing and preparing the new application to go live.. hv been making me stay longer in the office...

however, i still able to find some time out with the gals here.... it was su's birthday and we hv a wonderful dinner at lao beijing restuarant at plaza singapura.. i must say the dessert, almond paste is world best.. must try.. and i will go there again .. for this ^.^... hmmm drooling again whahahah

八月十五.....人月团圆 - 可是天不做美

this year lunar 八月十五, was forecasted that we have the roundest or brightest ^.^ moon ever... but we could not see it here.... drizzling the whole evening... but we still proceed to the park with our mooncakes, lanterns and of course... our darlings....

as the rain got heavy, we packed up and went to jac's place.. as usual, we have our MJ session..... after we washed and dried our furbies ^.^