Good intentions...but we are one of a kind

ah gal work 11am-10pm tonite..before she set up, i just reminded her to be alert at all times... especailly when coming home..

this reminded me that one of my good buddy suggested to get ah boy to wait for her downstairs while she returning from home... Well, i understand her good intentions...but we are one of a kind....

we are not those normal family, who has a husband or a father concern enough to go down stairs to pick up the wife or daughter on those late nites return.. . we just dont have this kind of privilege, and we must learn to live up with our conditions....we are on our own, very much alone.......

Though is a good suggestion to get ah boy to pick up her, but how many times, how many nites he can do it... so we decided to have a small family discussion over this.... and we all agreed one need to be alert and careful when we are back alone... and we must learn to take care ourselves at all times, and in all situations....

We must also believe there is a pair of invisiable eyes that watching over us.. but we have to do our part to protect ourselves first..
for gals, not to wear too prevailing... and boys not to be flashy with his toys. >> handphone, ipod etc...

well, i apply these when i travel alone durinng my assignment.. anyone to protect me , to pick up now and then.. NO ONE!! NONE !! I AM ALL ALONE !!! just have to trust God to protect.... so are my kids... they are not normal kids..... they are one of a kind that grow up much more stronger and versatile compare to those in normal happy family kinda.....

Hidden fear is gone .... at least for now

As my kids grown up... i hv a fear inside me.. it was what happen if the biological father come back and haunt them for money... i got ridden on enough, and i dont want my kids follows my footsteps....

Recent event has brought me to a point to tell my kids what had happened and also teach them how to handle the situation
my gal is a kind and she is a sentimental person.... however, sonny is not so.. he gave me a stern note that he will not allow this happen and will at all times, to protect the sister.... Suddenly.. i just feel that my son has grown up..and he is taking up role of a man, to protect his household... i am very glad and relieved...

yes, my kids have indeed grown up.., sensible and mature..
my greatest fear is over, at least for now....thank God for his mercy and grace... what happen next, no one knows really.. but i want to trust God that He will put things right in His time... even though what our flesh eyes sees is so unfair and unjustice to all of us...